35 Ninja Ways for How to Make the World a Better Place
- Kirsten Weinzierl
- Oct 12, 2018
- 9 min read
You Need to Save Yourself First
I always thought that if I put others first and helped them first, that would make me a hero. Somehow I got the idea that by putting others first, I would be doing the "right thing".
Boy, was I wrong!
It wasn't until I had the realization that putting myself first was the best and only way I could truly help others. And I'm not talking about narcissistically putting myself first. I'm referring to taking care of myself and my needs first so that I can be mentally and physically strong enough to help others.
I know we've all heard the put your oxygen mask on first before you help others. The same goes in all aspects. We must fill our own tanks first to be able to help fill others.
Keep It Simple Superhero
Another realization that has enlightened me is I was aiming far too big for my own comfort. Meaning, I would set goals that were way too big and too far outside my own comfort zone that they also went outside my own self-trust zone.
I was setting a goal that was way too out there, my subconscious was like "yeah right, there's no way in hell!" I was having an internal fight with myself because I didn't trust that I could actually accomplish those things.
So I decided to start smaller and work my way up. Build that trust in myself so I could build on bigger goals the more I built my own trust muscles.
Sometimes we need to start small, where we know we can push past our comfort zone, yet are still within our zone of self-trust, believing we can accomplish this.
I realized that when it comes to making the world a better place, we need to keep it simple, manageable, slightly out of our comfort zone, yet within our zone of self-trust.
Reaching out to my blogging family I asked for their ideas. I asked in what small ways would you make the world a better place? And boy did they deliver!!
Here are 35 Ninja Ways for How to Make the
World a Better Place 1. "I would make the world a better place by making the least possible impact on the environment. This is done by eliminating or decreasing the amount of meat and dairy I eat, recycling, buying less disposable items and instead of buying things that can be easily reused and eliminating my plastic usage."
Alexis blogs over at FitFinancials.com.2. "A simple act of kindness will certainly lift the spirits of the recipient, and research shows it will also increase your own happiness. It’s a win-win! Kindness is contagious, so let’s create an epidemic."
Check out Ellen's post for ideas for simple acts of kindness.3. "Be kind to other drivers. Let them in, let them go first, practice patience. Instead of getting upset if someone cuts you off, be kind and forgive them immediately. It can take some practice, but you'll find more peace doing this."
Obtaining Bliss4. "Be present in the world. Put your phone down and be aware of your surroundings. Say hello to people. Let someone go in front of you in line. Pick up that bit of trash next to your car in the parking lot. Just be aware of your surroundings and participate in the world because you will come away feeling better as a result."
Sheila has several posts that are based on my favorite quote of all time.
Check out Obtaining Bliss' Personal Development list of books you should read this year.6. "Don't run away from people who are grieving. It's hard to know what to say or do, but just your presence or a small gesture of kindness on a regular basis can help them live through the crisis. When my best friend lost her daughter, a mutual friend came once a week for a year and cleaned her house. When I lost my daughter 3 years ago, my husband (at that time, my fiance) set a cup of coffee by my bedside every single morning for a while."
Read Stephanie's story where kindness helped her live through the worst imaginable thing.7. "Give a coupon to someone in line or about to pay for something. At that point, it's like handing them cash and costs you nothing! I'll do it for meals, products, entertainment ... wherever I am and happen to have an extra coupon!"
Juli from Bargain Believer8. "Give a genuine compliment to someone on their outfit. Women especially remember this kind of comment and it boosts their confidence level. If you see someone with a tag or one of those hanger loops sticking out of their clothing, kindly go to them and let them know or ask if they would like you to fix it for them. I have done this a few times and it is always appreciated."
Nanci from Grandir Fashion9. "Give Patience - As travelers, we often muddle thru communicating with locals using hand gestures, and broken words. At the end of the experience - we usually get our message across, but often times we overlook the gift of patience we have received from a stranger who is helping to interpret what we are trying to communicate. If we can take this lesson of the generosity of time and gift patience to others who need a little more help, we can make the world a better place."
Keri from The Traveling Smarty Pants
Check out Amanda's post on How to Find Time for God and Prayer11. "I have made a point of reminding myself daily (several times) to make a point of being helpful instead of critical. You just never know what someone is going through."
Read Kim's experience about the kindness of strangers here.12. "I like to compliment people whenever possible. Whether it’s their hair, an outfit, shoes, or something can a perfume or lotion they have on. It always makes the person smile. If this small gesture can make someone feel more confident, it’s even better."
Ashley from Unveiled Tales13. "I think one of the big things for me was getting off of social media. I was spending so much time arguing on Facebook it was totally stressing me out and making me an angry person."
Read Craig's post on how Facebook is poisoning our relationships.14. "I try to make the world a better place by being generous. The whole reason for me starting my blog about personal finance was to try and help other people build wealth so they can live better lives and be more generous to others."
Cara from CaraPalmer.com15. "I would get people to stop buying things they don't need and donate at least one thing every month to someone in need. By doing this, you are not only helping someone and saving money, but you are also reducing all the incredible waste that our consumerism culture has created!"
Sara from Gathering Dreams.16. "I would help people do what I write about on my blog, which is how to set up your mornings for success! I believe that if everyone had the right morning routine in place, we could all live happier, healthier, and more productive lives."
Jake from The Morning Start17. "Get out of any toxic relationships you are in. You will attract much better things to your life if you rid your own world of toxicity."
Obtaining Bliss

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